Week 1 - The Foundation

laundry

He is turning into a big helper. :)

the waiting adventure of a lifetime!!!!!

Okay people, this is for realssssss.... Ohis IS the best, and here is yet another reason!!!!
Pretty pretty please go to this site: http://www.hockinghillscanopytours.com/tour_overview.html - read the small blurb, and know in your heart that I don't know how... but Mark and I WILL be doing this THIS SUMMER or else. :)
Seriously people... this state is awesome.

SOme pictures I scanned in, illegally I'm sure, from Me and Mel's photo shoot on his birthday! I scanned them in crooked, and one I cut off a few inches because the actual photo was bigger than my scanner. Be that as it may, you get the idea. :) I actually really like them! My favorite is the one where Mel is actually smiling and I'm looking at him, even though it is unflattering of me. Mark insinuated it made my nose look big... among other things. :) Oh well. I'm really glad we did it- it was a fun birthday activity!

Refreshing

This is so refreshing to me. Read on, if you wish to have goodness confirmed to your soul. Living in harmony with God's teachings really does bring happiness, confidence and peace.
I read and copied this from here:
http://www.newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/who-are-the-mormons


SALT LAKE CITY 5 September 2008 Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (commonly known as Mormons) can be found at every level of society — in business and agriculture, education and the sciences, political parties and government, the entertainment industry and news media.
Describing the character of Latter-day Saints, Newsweek magazine wrote: “No matter where Mormons live, they find themselves part of a network of mutual concern; in Mormon theology everyone is a minister of a kind, everyone is empowered in some way to do good to others, and to have good done unto them: it is a 21st century covenant of caring.”
This caring is not limited to Church members alone but extends far beyond. According to Church President Thomas S. Monson, “As a church we reach out not only to our own people but also to those people of goodwill throughout the world in that spirit of brotherhood which comes from the Lord Jesus Christ.”
Membership
Values
Beliefs
Education
Worship
Missionary Work
Family
Organization
Lay Leadership
Community
Respect and Tolerance
Humanitarian Service

Membership
More than 13 million people now constitute the Church’s membership, a majority of whom live outside the United States. And within the United States, it has the fourth-largest membership of any church. Since its humble founding in 1830 with a mere six people in a log cabin in upstate New York, the Church has continued to grow in membership and influence.
Values
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is a restoration of New Testament Christianity as taught by Jesus and His apostles. It is not Protestant, evangelical, Catholic or Orthodox. Nevertheless, the basic values of morality, civility and family espoused by the Church are similar to those of most other Christian faiths. Church members find refuge from the uncertainties of the world in the gospel message of hope and happiness. The reality that life has divine purpose, that God cares for each individual and that everyone has the capacity for improvement through correct choices is a central theme of Mormon thought.
Beliefs
Latter-day Saints believe in a loving, personal God as our Heavenly Father. Since He is the Father of our spirits, all people are His children and thus all people are brothers and sisters. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to redeem mankind from their sins. Church members try to model their lives on the Savior’s teachings. All individuals are entitled to personal revelation. God has called new apostles and prophets in our day through whom He reveals his word, as He did anciently. Thus, God still speaks to humankind. Mormons believe in the Holy Bible, both the Old and New Testaments. In addition, they use other scriptures, including the Book of Mormon, which serves as another witness to the ministry of Christ and His divinity. Used together, these scriptures offer insight into such vital questions as the nature of God, salvation and the Atonement.
Education
One of the highest values of the Church is education. It is considered a spiritual imperative as much as a secular one. Thus, according to the late President Gordon B. Hinckley, “The Lord has laid a mandate upon the people of this Church that they should learn by study and by faith, that they should seek not only after spiritual knowledge, which is most important, but that they should seek after secular knowledge.” The Church offers its youth ample educational opportunities: seminary is a four-year program that prepares high school students for the spiritual challenges of life; institutes of religion provide general religious instruction and a social atmosphere for college-age adults. Over 700,000 students are enrolled in these programs, which are established in 132 countries.
In addition, the Church has created the Perpetual Education Fund to provide young men and women of the Church in developing nations with the means to gain education and training. This fund, which comes largely from the contributions of Church members, offers loans to students, enabling them to attend school and find employment opportunities in their own countries and communities.
Worship
On any given Sunday, Latter-day Saints gather for worship services in more than 27,000 congregations in 177 countries, nations and territories around the world. Adapted to the local needs of the various congregations around the world, these worship services are held in more than 180 languages and welcome visitor participation.
Missionary Work
The worldwide growth of the Church is partly due to the service of more than 50,000 full-time, volunteer missionaries, who teach the gospel wherever they can — in the streets and in the home. But this tells only half the story. The openness and caring of the members toward their friends and acquaintances is the real catalyst for growth, as the restored gospel provides answers to life’s deepest questions.
Family
President Monson recently described the ideal home: “Our homes are to be more than sanctuaries; they should also be places where God’s Spirit can dwell, where the storm stops at the door, where love reigns and peace dwells. The world can at times be a frightening place in which to live. The moral fabric of society seems to be unraveling at an alarming speed.” But, he continued, this is a struggle that families and individuals “can and will win.” Thus, in an increasingly fractional society, the importance of strengthening the family is paramount. The values essential to the prosperity of any civilization are first instilled in the family — the fundamental unit of society — where a husband and wife work together for the betterment of the whole. The Church’s teachings and programs are designed to fortify the family. The time-honored virtues of charity, sacrifice, patience and forgiveness enable society to prosper. They are most effectively learned at home.
Organization
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is organized much the same way that Christ organized His church in New Testament times. It is led by a prophet who serves as president of the Church. He has two counselors, and these three leaders constitute the First Presidency. The First Presidency is assisted by twelve apostles, who are special witnesses of Jesus Christ to all the world. Leaders called seventies assist the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and serve in various areas throughout the world. Local congregations are led by bishops. The main organization for women in the Church is the Relief Society, which was founded in 1842. Today this organization includes more than 5.5 million women ages 18 and older in over 170 countries.
Lay Leadership
The local leadership of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is composed of qualified lay members, not a paid clergy. Chosen through prayer and inspiration, these leaders do not aspire to Church positions but respond to “callings” in a spirit of service. Individual members in turn are called by their leaders to serve in various positions in their congregation. This cooperative enterprise means that lay members alternately preach sermons and listen to sermons, lead music and sing music, give advice and receive advice. Their service blesses others and leads to personal growth. In addition to strengthening the family, this organizational structure fosters a profound sense of community within the congregation and satisfies the human desire for connection through mutual responsibility to each other.
Community
The Church is actively involved in the civic affairs of the communities where its members live. It has an obligation to take stands on moral issues facing society. In the arena of partisan politics, however, the Church has adopted a strict policy of neutrality. The Church’s mission is to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, not to elect politicians. It does not endorse, promote or oppose political parties, candidates or platforms, recognizing that its values can reside in each of them. Nevertheless, the Church does encourage its members to be responsible citizens in their communities, including becoming informed about issues and voting in elections. Further, it expects its members to engage in the political process in an informed and civil manner, respecting the fact that members of the Church come from a variety of backgrounds and experiences.
Respect and Tolerance
In that same spirit of civility and respect, President Monson recently made a plea to the members of the Church for more religious understanding and tolerance: “I would encourage members of the Church wherever they may be to show kindness and respect for all people everywhere. The world in which we live is filled with diversity. We can and should demonstrate respect toward those whose beliefs differ from ours.”
Humanitarian Service
In his inaugural press conference held on 4 February 2008, President Monson emphasized the importance of cooperation in civic endeavors: “We have a responsibility to be active in the communities where we live, all Latter-day Saints, and to work cooperatively with other churches and organizations. My objective there is ... that we eliminate the weakness of one standing alone and substitute for it the strength of people working together.” The worldwide charitable efforts of the Church are often carried out in partnership with other faiths and organizations of goodwill.
In the year 2007 alone, the Church responded to major earthquakes in five countries, massive fires in six countries, hunger and famine in 18 countries, and flooding and severe storms in 34 countries. In total the Church and its members responded to 170 major events — nearly one every two days for the entire year. The motivation behind this vast global work centers on the simple charge given by Jesus so many years ago to “love thy neighbor as thyself.”SALT LAKE CITY 5 September 2008 Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (commonly known as Mormons) can be found at every level of society — in business and agriculture, education and the sciences, political parties and government, the entertainment industry and news media.
Describing the character of Latter-day Saints, Newsweek magazine wrote: “No matter where Mormons live, they find themselves part of a network of mutual concern; in Mormon theology everyone is a minister of a kind, everyone is empowered in some way to do good to others, and to have good done unto them: it is a 21st century covenant of caring.”
This caring is not limited to Church members alone but extends far beyond. According to Church President Thomas S. Monson, “As a church we reach out not only to our own people but also to those people of goodwill throughout the world in that spirit of brotherhood which comes from the Lord Jesus Christ.”
Membership
Values
Beliefs
Education
Worship
Missionary Work
Family
Organization
Lay Leadership
Community
Respect and Tolerance
Humanitarian Service

Membership
More than 13 million people now constitute the Church’s membership, a majority of whom live outside the United States. And within the United States, it has the fourth-largest membership of any church. Since its humble founding in 1830 with a mere six people in a log cabin in upstate New York, the Church has continued to grow in membership and influence.
Values
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is a restoration of New Testament Christianity as taught by Jesus and His apostles. It is not Protestant, evangelical, Catholic or Orthodox. Nevertheless, the basic values of morality, civility and family espoused by the Church are similar to those of most other Christian faiths. Church members find refuge from the uncertainties of the world in the gospel message of hope and happiness. The reality that life has divine purpose, that God cares for each individual and that everyone has the capacity for improvement through correct choices is a central theme of Mormon thought.
Beliefs
Latter-day Saints believe in a loving, personal God as our Heavenly Father. Since He is the Father of our spirits, all people are His children and thus all people are brothers and sisters. He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to redeem mankind from their sins. Church members try to model their lives on the Savior’s teachings. All individuals are entitled to personal revelation. God has called new apostles and prophets in our day through whom He reveals his word, as He did anciently. Thus, God still speaks to humankind. Mormons believe in the Holy Bible, both the Old and New Testaments. In addition, they use other scriptures, including the Book of Mormon, which serves as another witness to the ministry of Christ and His divinity. Used together, these scriptures offer insight into such vital questions as the nature of God, salvation and the Atonement.
Education
One of the highest values of the Church is education. It is considered a spiritual imperative as much as a secular one. Thus, according to the late President Gordon B. Hinckley, “The Lord has laid a mandate upon the people of this Church that they should learn by study and by faith, that they should seek not only after spiritual knowledge, which is most important, but that they should seek after secular knowledge.” The Church offers its youth ample educational opportunities: seminary is a four-year program that prepares high school students for the spiritual challenges of life; institutes of religion provide general religious instruction and a social atmosphere for college-age adults. Over 700,000 students are enrolled in these programs, which are established in 132 countries.
In addition, the Church has created the Perpetual Education Fund to provide young men and women of the Church in developing nations with the means to gain education and training. This fund, which comes largely from the contributions of Church members, offers loans to students, enabling them to attend school and find employment opportunities in their own countries and communities.
Worship
On any given Sunday, Latter-day Saints gather for worship services in more than 27,000 congregations in 177 countries, nations and territories around the world. Adapted to the local needs of the various congregations around the world, these worship services are held in more than 180 languages and welcome visitor participation.
Missionary Work
The worldwide growth of the Church is partly due to the service of more than 50,000 full-time, volunteer missionaries, who teach the gospel wherever they can — in the streets and in the home. But this tells only half the story. The openness and caring of the members toward their friends and acquaintances is the real catalyst for growth, as the restored gospel provides answers to life’s deepest questions.
Family
President Monson recently described the ideal home: “Our homes are to be more than sanctuaries; they should also be places where God’s Spirit can dwell, where the storm stops at the door, where love reigns and peace dwells. The world can at times be a frightening place in which to live. The moral fabric of society seems to be unraveling at an alarming speed.” But, he continued, this is a struggle that families and individuals “can and will win.” Thus, in an increasingly fractional society, the importance of strengthening the family is paramount. The values essential to the prosperity of any civilization are first instilled in the family — the fundamental unit of society — where a husband and wife work together for the betterment of the whole. The Church’s teachings and programs are designed to fortify the family. The time-honored virtues of charity, sacrifice, patience and forgiveness enable society to prosper. They are most effectively learned at home.
Organization
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is organized much the same way that Christ organized His church in New Testament times. It is led by a prophet who serves as president of the Church. He has two counselors, and these three leaders constitute the First Presidency. The First Presidency is assisted by twelve apostles, who are special witnesses of Jesus Christ to all the world. Leaders called seventies assist the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and serve in various areas throughout the world. Local congregations are led by bishops. The main organization for women in the Church is the Relief Society, which was founded in 1842. Today this organization includes more than 5.5 million women ages 18 and older in over 170 countries.
Lay Leadership
The local leadership of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is composed of qualified lay members, not a paid clergy. Chosen through prayer and inspiration, these leaders do not aspire to Church positions but respond to “callings” in a spirit of service. Individual members in turn are called by their leaders to serve in various positions in their congregation. This cooperative enterprise means that lay members alternately preach sermons and listen to sermons, lead music and sing music, give advice and receive advice. Their service blesses others and leads to personal growth. In addition to strengthening the family, this organizational structure fosters a profound sense of community within the congregation and satisfies the human desire for connection through mutual responsibility to each other.
Community
The Church is actively involved in the civic affairs of the communities where its members live. It has an obligation to take stands on moral issues facing society. In the arena of partisan politics, however, the Church has adopted a strict policy of neutrality. The Church’s mission is to preach the gospel of Jesus Christ, not to elect politicians. It does not endorse, promote or oppose political parties, candidates or platforms, recognizing that its values can reside in each of them. Nevertheless, the Church does encourage its members to be responsible citizens in their communities, including becoming informed about issues and voting in elections. Further, it expects its members to engage in the political process in an informed and civil manner, respecting the fact that members of the Church come from a variety of backgrounds and experiences.
Respect and Tolerance
In that same spirit of civility and respect, President Monson recently made a plea to the members of the Church for more religious understanding and tolerance: “I would encourage members of the Church wherever they may be to show kindness and respect for all people everywhere. The world in which we live is filled with diversity. We can and should demonstrate respect toward those whose beliefs differ from ours.”
Humanitarian Service
In his inaugural press conference held on 4 February 2008, President Monson emphasized the importance of cooperation in civic endeavors: “We have a responsibility to be active in the communities where we live, all Latter-day Saints, and to work cooperatively with other churches and organizations. My objective there is ... that we eliminate the weakness of one standing alone and substitute for it the strength of people working together.” The worldwide charitable efforts of the Church are often carried out in partnership with other faiths and organizations of goodwill.
In the year 2007 alone, the Church responded to major earthquakes in five countries, massive fires in six countries, hunger and famine in 18 countries, and flooding and severe storms in 34 countries. In total the Church and its members responded to 170 major events — nearly one every two days for the entire year. The motivation behind this vast global work centers on the simple charge given by Jesus so many years ago to “love thy neighbor as thyself.”

The Celebrations!

In honor of Mel's birthday, he ate a breakfast of nutrigrain bar, with strawberries and blackberries.. What a mess! :)

After breakfast he took and birthday bath, then walk, then nap. After his nap, we put on this "uno" shirt, and I put on a similar, but more feminie version, and we had our pictures taken at Penny's. I hardly have any with him since we're out here all by our lonesomes... so that was really nice. After pictures, we TRIED to open presents....on the porch.
Then we put the icing on the cake, and went to our good friends' home, who have become like adopted family out here. Thank you guys so much for the gourmet food, beautiful and festive decorations, and wonderful company!!!!! It was SOOOOO nice to celebrate with you!

Here we are in our birthday celebration duds! Thank you for the idea Wendy!!!

A picture of the party peeps! They even put streamers everywhere and got Mel an AWESOME gift! Thank you guys!!!! Another friend, and shot of the decorations! Thank you for videotaping Jared!

Mel opening his present!

Mel didn't know what to do with all his birthday attention, with the song and all... :)

Mel trying out cake!

He got into it, literally, pretty quickly..

He even got cake seconds....

a cake-face closeup.

It was such a nice day. I still can't believe he's one!!!! Happy birthday Melvin!!!

the day Mel was born and an ode to being his mother..

The day Melvin was born... hummm... I remember waking up at around 7:00 a.m. (though in truth I'd been up all night having relatively powerful contractions)... and started walking around the house, using a rice bag for heat during contractions. Mark and I had taken a Hypnobabies class, which taught how to stay completely comfortable while at home during labor...so we really focused on what we'd been taught, and tried to do as much of the labor at home as possible.

It was a bit confusing though, because my contractions seemed to be sporadic. They would build for a couple of hours, and then 15 minutes would go by with nothing...so the rule of thumb of timing the contractions and all that wouldn't work...

At any rate, we called our midwife at 2:00 p.m., were at the hospital at three, (where we were monitored for an hour... and checked- I was dialated to 5, fully effaced, and Mel was fully engaged. I was admitted to the hospital at 4:00. Things went pretty smoothly until about 8:00... that's when my contractions became very powerful, and I wasn't sure if I could give birth naturally... but Mark and our midwife were so supportive and wonderful! I pushed through, literally, :) and delivered Mel naturally at 11:09 p.m. May 18th, 2008!

After giving birth I felt like I could do ANYTHING!!! I felt like SUPER WOMAN! What a rush! It was such an amazing experience.

When Mel was born, he was SO unhappy. The first glimpse I got of him, his face was all scrunched up and COMPLETELY grumpy looking, and of course he was screaming. :) Poor guy. It's not easy being birthed.

But that night was wonderful. Mark was exhausted, so fell asleep immediately. But Mel and I had all the energy in the world, and just laid there, in the dimly lit hospital room starring at each other.

I have completely fallen in love with him. This has been THE fastest, THE most rewarding, THE most fulfilling, THE best year of my life. It's amazing how instinctual mothering is-- one day, you don't have a baby, and the next you do- and you would HONESTLY do ANYTHING for them if they needed it.

All of a sudden hours spent holding your dear one are the best hours of your life, and you wouldn't trade them for ANY other activity. When invitations come to go the movies, out to eat, to go shopping, playing games, ANYTHING, nothing sounds quite as nice as staying home holding your baby,starring at all his perfect features, and thanking God He's made you a wife and mother.

There are days I feel lonely, and days when I feel like I've completely lost my own identity, or lost my mind because I don't know why he is upset... but really, those days don't matter.

And now, this tiny baby who could not even hold his head, is one. He army crawls as fast as any kitten can trot, :) he pulls himself to a stand on couches, tables chairs, and bathtubs. He can put himself to a sitting position ALL by himself, and can walk and run while holding on to our index fingers. He can creep up and down our couch all by himself. He can climb stairs. He loves to swing, and do ANYTHING outside. He can point at geese, ducks, rabbits, goats, cats, birds and planes, and loves to say "Dada," chase Mark, and tickle him. He loves reading, and to turn the pages. He loves feeding himself crackers, fruit, bread, pasta,cookies, and most recently, cake. :) He laughs the most when we feed the geese and goslings, and right before he goes to bed, because he's silly when he's tired.

I could go on and on about all the things I love about him- and the joy it gives me to see him grow. This is THE best.

I love Melvin, and I especially love Mark, because though most days are great, some aren't, and Mark is so sweet and helpful. He and Melvin are the best of buds. One of my favorite times of day are when Mark walks in the door from work, and Melvin hears and sees him- he gets anxious and excited and will laugh and squeal, and reach for my fingers so I will walk him over to Mark. It is very sweet. So, yes... I love my boys.